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Normal people don’t sit at home and look at porn on the internet.

I'll be the one rocking and crying in the corner over here, okay, thanks. Ugh.

OK, this post is totally NSFW. Well, it’s Saturday, so probably you’re not AT work. Unless you’re me. Or my coworkers. Then you’re totally at work. And you’re miserable, because your job sucks and the callers are mean and also the thingamobobbers in the chairs that lift them up to a reasonable height aren’t working so you’re sitting like two inches above the floor and you have to reach UP to get to the keyboard, so you feel like maybe you’re in hell.

But anyway. Yeah, I’m not kidding about the NSFW-y-ness of this post. It’s porny, you guys. TOTALLY PORNY. Yet I’m fairly sure I finished it with the minimum of cusses. Do you know why? Because I’m as talented as I am lovely. SHUT UP I AM. So anyway! Yes. If you are of a delicate constitution, or if you don’t like perviness, or for whatever reason you’re all “no no not today my good sir” then you can come back tomorrow. What am I blogging about tomorrow? I don’t know. I haven’t decided yet. What do I look like, a Magic 8-Ball of blog topics?

One of my most amazing and lovely friends brought a situation to my attention that I think needs to be addressed. She would have liked to address it herself, but she is currently job-hunting, and does not think it would be the best course of action to post about this in such a way that maybe a potential employer could read this and be all, “Hmm. Maybe we will NOT hire her, because of the dirty.”

I have promised to keep her anonymous, and SO I SHALL. Let’s just leave it at, I adore her, she is awesome, and she kicks SO MUCH ASS, you guys, seriously, and my life is infinitely a richer place for having her in it.

ANYWAY, enough of the love for my anonymous friend. I need to give her a top-secret anonymous name. Let’s call her Rose. Because she’s gorgeous, but you don’t want to push her too far. BECAUSE THORNS. (Metaphorical thorns, obviously. She’s not all thorny. She’s not like that guy that grew bark on his arms. DO YOU REMEMBER THAT GUY. Ugh. That grossed me out SO BADLY. What? You have no idea what I’m talking about? THIS GUY. You’re welcome. And ew.) Thorns of WORDS. Barbed, awesome, perfect-for-any-situation words.

Anyway, Rose emailed me and said, hey, Amy, so I was thinking, this needs to be addressed, because it’s obviously a very serious problem. And today I looked into it, and ZOMG you guys. SUCH A PROBLEM.

What’s the problem, Amy? I can hear you asking. Yes, I can totally hear you, I have ears like a damn BAT, I’m telling you.

The problem is: taking nude photos of yourself to send to people online. Or to post online. Or otherwise for online consumption.

Now, before you get all up-in-arms and all “But AMY, it’s a DIGITAL AGE, we’re all DATING ONLINE, how ELSE are we supposed to BE INTIMATE” – just wait a second, slappy, I’m not finished.

For the most part – FOR THE MOST PART – sending nudie pictures of yourself to someone is NOT A GOOD IDEA. Let me reiterate, using smaller words. Do. Not. Send. Nude. Pix. On. Line.

Here is why, in list form for easy consumption:

  1. Most than likely, that relationship isn’t going to last. And you’re going to spend the rest of your life waiting for the other shoe to drop. The other naked, naked shoe. And for your mom to email you all, “Hey, your Aunt Matilda just emailed me this, she saw it on Facebook, is this your cooch? Why does someone have a photo of your cooch?”
  2. Naked photos aren’t that sexy. Sorry. They just aren’t. Being naked WITH someone? Totally sexy. Don’t get me wrong! I love some good alone time. But naked photos? Not really all that sexy. Like, you of course have to SAY they’re sexy. You have to be all, “Wow! That sure is…a large…photographic rendering…of your…swimsuit area! BAD TOUCH!” but mostly you’re thinking, “this would be a lot sexier in person. This is kind of a letdown, all-told.”
  3. What if you become a big famous famous person. You know that person you THOUGHT was worth sending tit-shots to is selling your photos to Extra for like $17.50 because they need that money to buy Ho-Hos. And then, MORE CALLS FROM YOUR MOM. “Honey? I just saw your boobies on Extra! Why does Extra have your boobies on my television set?”
  4. What if you’re emailing that photo and you accidentally send it to the wrong person? There is NO WAY you’re getting out of that one, Perv McPerverson.
  5. If you are in elected office, NEVER SEND NAKED PICTURES. There’s never a good time to do this. Not ever. Not even, like, if someone’s holding your mom hostage and tells you they won’t shoot her in her head if you send them a photo of your wang. DON’T DO IT; IT IS A TRAP.

But let’s say, hey, you’re in a committed relationship. Or, maybe you decide, hey, everyone’s doing it, this guy that I’ve known for like two weeks seems totally trustworthy, WHAT’S THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN. (This is not a good idea; please see notes 1-5 above.) Or, barring that, you just totally like to send naked photos of yourself to people. What? You want advice? I WILL GIVE IT TO YOU.

Rose pointed me in the direction of this website. IT IS NOT SAFE FOR WORK. Or children. Or people who like to NOT bleach their eyeballs after looking at the interwebs. Listen, if you click on that link, it’s not going to give you a virus, as it’s just a Tumblr. But if it DID give you a virus, it would be syphilis.

At first, I was just very confused, because she said there was a lot of porn on the site and it was just people wearing Guy Fawkes masks. (SIDE NOTE. Guy Fawkes masks give me the shivers. No, seriously. I think they are the worst. I think they are nightmare material. I think they are horrific. So this website is NOT AT ALL SEXY TO ME. It is FALSE ADVERTISING to call this SexyFawkes.) I couldn’t understand what was sexy about this, as it was just random people standing around in Guy Fawkes masks, and then I went into the archives, because Rose is one of the smartest people I know so I knew she wasn’t a liar, and HOLY HELL, PEOPLE.

I’m totally a prude and WHOA NELLY. ALL THE PORN. In those creeptastic masks. THIS IS AWFUL.

Apparently, from what I can tell, people send in photos of themselves in these masks that I think my death will wear when it comes for me and they can be doing whatever they want, as long as they’re wearing the mask. No, I’m not 100% sure what the point is, either, if there indeed is one. I guess to be famous? On the internets? Things that they have chosen to be doing: standing around aimlessly; showing me their bits; doggie-styling their girlfriend (YOU STOPPED AND TOOK A PHOTO??? I mean, kudos on the multitaskery, but she wasn’t angry you were all “Hey babe, just have to set up the tripod, wait a sec, ‘kay?), and, in what was my most favorite, apparently showing the entire interwebs what your cervix looks like while playing with anal beads. (Per Rose: “Save a little mystery–only your gynecologist should be able to look THAT far inside you.”)

Yes, I’m a little perplexed as to who is sending nude photos of themselves wearing a scary-ass mask to a Tumblr site. But I’m old, maybe it’s what kids today do for kicks, like the 2012 version of Whip-Its or something, what do I know. It seems that the youth of today have much less shame about their bodies. That’s nice! That must be a nice feeling to have, right? I mean, my mom taught me that you keep that shit covered up unless you’re married and making a baby? And yeah, I laughed that one right out of the courtroom early on. (No, there’s no courtroom. It is ALSO a metaphor.) But these kids did that ONE BETTER. They are not only showing it to their potential partners, they’re showing it to EVERYONE. Well, at least they’re wearing a mask, so they’re anonymous, so someday they can get a job at McDonalds or something. Yes, a mask. A MASK THAT WILL HAUNT MY DREAMS. My filthy, dirty dreams.

OK, so if you are Pervy Pete or Ding Dong Joe, you have already abandoned my site and are merrily looking at tits and dicks and that’s nice. But here’s the problem Rose had with the site.

A lot of these purportedly “sexy” photos are NOT SEXY AT ALL. MISTAKES WERE MADE.

Some of the problems:

Location. Rose pointed out some major problems: “Choose a location that doesn’t look like you live with your parents, such as a kitchen that hasn’t been updated since the 70s or a rumpled futon in their basement.”

Another problem – listen, I KNOW the best place for cellphone photos is the bathroom. I know that. Not only does it have the best light, you can see what the photo will look like in the mirror before you click it. I get it. I DO. But you can also frame it so that your shower curtain isn’t visible. OR YOUR TOILET. Come on, seriously? I mean, I’m probably not in a sexy mood anyway with a photo of your shower curtain and that effing MASK but I don’t want to see your porcelain throne, thanks.

Also, if you take a photo of yourself in your bed? I’m not saying you need to spring for the satin sheets, but probably CLEAN sheets. Sheets without unidentifiable GUNK on them. Also, balled-up dirty socks is not really making me want sexy-time.

Oh. OH. If it wasn’t so gross and I didn’t think I would contract crabs I’d show you the photo but if you go back like ten pages or something in the archives (NOT THAT I DID THAT WHO WOULD DO THAT) there is a nudie picture of some guy who I swear is standing in the open doorway of a cheap motel in the broad daylight. WHAT THE HELL. You weren’t afraid people would be walking by? I don’t…what? Who thinks this is a good place to have a photo session?

Posing. Per Rose: “Choose a pose that is flattering to your physique. If you’re a guy, scrunching your body up to maximize your tummy flab isn’t winning the ladies over.”

There were also a lot of ladies attempting the sexy “cat-pose” like crawling toward the camera or whatever and listen, that’s nice, in a music video from 1987, but in real life, you’re just looking silly right now. I don’t want to pour any sugar on you. Just stop it.

Technology. Again, per Rose: “If you’re going to Photoshop your photos, but you don’t know how, enlist an expert. Or we’ll just be laughing at you when your artistic efforts turn out stupid.”

I assume this is referring to the photo I must have stared at for about ten minutes, trying to figure out WHY IS SHE SO SHINY. I couldn’t tell – did she coat herself with baby oil? She looks like she’s made of plastic. Is this girl made of plastic? WHAT IS HAPPENING. And then I thought of Rose’s comment and I was all, “OH CRAP IT’S ON PURPOSE WITH SOFTWARE” and then I laughed and laughed because why is this a thing you would do? I guess you wanted to look like a life-sized Barbie, only grosser and much more skanktastic?

Weird props. Things that confused me: the guy who was naked and erect but draped in Christmas lights. (MERRY CHRISTMAS. Here is my penis. I am wearing a stalker mask. BEST GIFT EVER.) The aforementioned cervical-exam girl (listen, she had more props than just the beads. Also, there was what I think was a vibrator, but it also might have been a rectal thermometer. It did not look sexy; it looked clinical and sterile. Well, once-sterile. Not after what she was doing to it.) The woman who was naked and had Christmas bows over her nipples but not anywhere else (um…maybe you could have spring for some additional wrapping material for your hoo-hoo?)

Random confusing thing. What woman is going to not only give a blow job to someone wearing that horrible mask of grinning fear-related death, but let him PHOTOGRAPH IT FOR A WEBSITE. Unsexy.

So, tips. You want tips. I will give you tips. It is clear you need them.

  1. Don’t send naked photos online.
  2. If you absolutely, positively, MUST send naked photos online, please re-read number one.
  3. FINE. I see you are bound and determined to ignore me.
  4. Take the photo somewhere un-gross. If you must take it in the bathroom, please don’t let it look like you’re taking it in the bathroom. If you’re taking it in your bed, wash your sheets and stow the dirty laundry. If you’re taking it on the carpet and it looks like industrial carpet from a weirdo’s trailer where someone might keep women in cages, well, I can’t help you. Please see #1.
  5. Don’t pose like a dumbass.
  6. Don’t make yourself look like a life-sized blowup doll because it will give me nightmares and also hysterics.
  7. If you must use props, maybe use ones that are appropriate. Tip: Christmas lights aren’t sexy.
  8. If you’re paying so little attention to all the sex you’re having that you can take time out to put on a mask and take photos to send to some Tumblr site, I hope your girlfriend dumps your ass. Before she does this, I hope she takes all of your records and stomps on them with her stompiest shoes. PAY ATTENTION TO THE SEX YOU MORON.
  9. I don’t want to see that far inside anyone except that see-through plastic model of a person that my biology teacher used to have where you could see all the organs and shit. I loved that.
  10. If all else fails, please see #1.

I hope this has been helpful. If not, I hope you have plenty of bleach for your eyeballs. No, not you, Ding Dong Joe. I know this was just your cup of tea. YOU ARE WELCOME. No, you can’t “come over” for a “photo session.” Stop calling me. Who gave you this number?

(Title is OBVIOUSLY from the brilliant song “The Internet is for Porn” from Avenue Q. HERE IS THE VIDEO. You’re WELCOME.)

(Psst, thank you, Rose. You’re the best. And then again just a little bit better than that.)

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32 responses to “Normal people don’t sit at home and look at porn on the internet.

  • elaine4queen

    “…life-sized Barbie, only grosser and much more skanktastic?”

    my MIND MY M.IN.D is all warpy now. (suffice to say i didn’t click the link because i hate having images burned into my retinas)

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  • lynnettedobberpuhl

    ew x 3. I didn’t need to click, as you are quite descriptive and I have problems with my imagination as it is. ew. I don’t hate the Fawkes mask, but I am sure I would if I went to the site, so again, not clicking.

    I would like to addend #4 by saying if the sexy picture is taken in the bathroom and features the toilet, please make sure it is flushed. I saw a photo on facebook of a very cute girl taking an above the head, “look at my cleavage and uplifted face” photo that also featured a giant turd floating in the bowl next to her. It is not even porn, but I am sure that is a photo she wishes she hadn’t “sent.” I wish she hadn’t sent it, because other people’s poop is a special kind of fetish I don’t happen to have.

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    • lucysfootball

      Ugh, that was on FACEBOOK? What is WRONG with people. FLUSH THE TOILET. Ugh.

      You would hate the site. If you have an active imagination…I think you’re good. Don’t click. I’m still in recovery today.

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  • Roz

    This destroyed me halfway through. I had to stop reading or risk rupturing an internal organ.

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  • Heather

    Follow-up post: How many readers clicked the link?

    (At least one. Now pass the bleach.)

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  • Andreas Heinakroon

    Those masks. *shudders*

    I think regardless of your advice, they would fail to look sexy because – well: those masks. There could just as well have been pictures without heads (I don’t mean pictures of decapitated people (I’m not a monster, after all.)), I mean pictures with the heads cropped, showing only their bodies. Actually, that would have been preferable, because *shudders* those masks..

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    • lucysfootball

      I’m glad you agree. Those masks are the creepiest, right? I mean, I understand what they signify and everything. But they’re just so soulless and terrifying. Nothing’s sexy with one of those masks looking at you with that smug “I’m about to kill you in a hipster style with my awesome facial hair” expression.

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  • lgalaviz

    This was very educational as well as extremely disturbing. People are weird.

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  • lgalaviz

    I hadn’t thought about sending out naked pictures of myself on the Internet. Now, thanks entirely to you, I have thought about it and decided against it. I also would like to decide not to think about it, but that bridge is burned.

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  • lgalaviz

    I didn’t click any of these links. However, I wonder if the stuff I am imagining could be worse that what is actually there? Nope. I don’t think so.

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  • Rich Crete

    Here’s Timmy who is hitting weight room 1/2 an hour before the rest of his teammates do because that’s what his favorite football player Adrian Peterson does.
    Here’s Davey who is taking a picture of his junk with his celly because that’s what his favorite football player Brett Favre does.

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    • lucysfootball

      I totally forgot about Brett Favre. Didn’t he send people cellphone nudie pictures even after they were like, “No, please, Brett, could you not do that anymore?” and explained it with, “Of course they wanted them, I’M BRETT FAVRE.” Sigh.

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  • greengeekgirl

    I have additional comments about Christmas lights:

    Wouldn’t they be HOT? They’re LIGHTS. Against your SKIN. Burning into your flesh!

    Also, wouldn’t you be freaked out that they might electrocute you? And that you’d be found the next day all naked and electrocuted and there’s a camera tripod set up and the coroner will be like, “Hmmmmm.” And then it would be in the newspaper and you would be famous for all the wrong reasons, forever? Death by autoerotic electrocution? I mean, they told all the scandalous details about David Carradine and he was totally a star, I don’t think they are going to spare random Christmas light guy.

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    • lucysfootball

      They would not only NOT spare him, they’d take all kinds of cell-phone photos and he’d become much, much more famous than he’d ever intended.

      I like to imagine him all, “Yeah! This is sexy! This is…hot! This is…wait. Hot. THIS IS HOT. OW OW OW OW.”

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  • Tracie Baldwin

    Okay. You need to add one.

    #80bajillion – If you insist on taking pictures of yourself with your far too permissive girlfriend – TAKE OFF YOUR FRACKING SOCKS YOU HOBO

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  • Tracie Baldwin

    Also: I’m thinking that these people need better hobbies.

    And I’m not ashamed to say I clicked the link. And I looked. And I dissected the photos, tearing away and pissy attempt at “Artistic Merit” – this blog is completely UNLIKE anything Guy Fawkes represents. Unless he, too, had a tiny pecker.

    And then I cried a little.

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    • lucysfootball

      I think Guy Fawkes was a little too busy with other, more important, endeavors, to post poorly-staged nudie pictures on a Tumblr site. It’s all very confusing. I think they need a mission statement of some sort.

      “Hobbies: Putting on a Guy Fawkes mask and posting photos of my cock on Tumblr.” Win!

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  • Andreas Heinakroon

    Been thinking about this. (No. Not obsessively. Give me some credit! Thank you.) I don’t think they are doing it to look sexy. Ok, perhaps a few are trying to look like pinups or porn stars, but my guess is that most of them are clinical exhibitionists and get a kick out of knowing that people can see them on the internet.

    Which suddenly makes the whole thing a little sad.

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  • thepunchdrunkplaywright

    You know? I think people have used this site in a couple of ways. There are pictures of actual protesters wearing the mask. Sort of an “I am the 99%.” thing. There are pictures of fully clothed regular (I’m using that word loosely) people, sort of a lame “I’m protesting, too, you guys!” or just “Look at me! I’m on the internet!” There are a couple pictures of pets in the mask, which I love, because I love making dumb pets miserable and taking pictures of them. And then, there’s the naked-time pics. How did “I’m a legitimate protester” devolve into naked-time?

    Also, a couple of notes: If you’re tattooed all over, the mask won’t really do much. And, if you’re masked, why are you bothering to hide your junk, or shooting a picture of your backside but not your front? And, ladies? Gravity is not your friend.

    Porn should be left to having-sex-for-money people.

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    • lucysfootball

      I loved the pets, too. They were the least offensive things on the site.

      This is actually the best explanation of the site I’ve seen yet. They should have you write the “about us” blurb on their Tumblr, because they don’t have one (other than a “users submitted these photos themselves” thing – oh, thanks for clearing that up, I thought you took them all guerrilla-style) and this would have made perusing the site a lot less confusing. Still gross, still leaving me needing brain-bleach, but less confusing.

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  • renni

    Don’t stomp on records! If the girlfriend wants to steal his records before dumping him, fine. Sell his records on E-bay? Good. But don’t destroy records! It hurts baby three-toed sloth angels every time a record gets damaged!!!

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